it's not you...

it's me being lazy. sorry guys. i swear i'll write more soon :)

one singular sensation...

an offering of love tagged me for this meme that calliope created. it's was a bit harder than i thought. i really wanted to add explanations for some things:) but you can't! you have to answer with just one word.

1. Yourself: hungry

2. Your boyfriend/girlfriend: washing

3. Your hair: unruly

4. Your mother/stepmother: awesome

5. Your dog: sleepy

6. Your favorite item: bed

7. Your dream last night: non-existent

8. Your favorite drink: quenching

9. Your dream car: sturdy

10. The room you are in: comfortable

12. Your fear: loneliness

13. What you want to be in 10 years: settled

14. Who you hung out with last night: babes

15. What you’re not: thin

16. Muffin: top

17: One of your wish list items: designer

18: Time: late

19. The last thing you did: networking

20. What you are wearing: pjs

21. Your favorite weather: warm

22. Your favorite book: difficult

23. The last thing you ate: brownie

24. Your life: happy

25. Your mood: tired

26. Your best friend(S): growing

27. What are you thinking about right now? friendship

28. Your car: diiiirrrty

29. What are you doing at the moment?: listening

30. Your summer: hiking

31. Your relationship status: lovely

32. What is on your TV?: torchwood

33. What is the weather like?: cool

34. When is the last time you laughed?: afternoon

and now i tag lynn, amy, and amy and melissa. really everyone should try this though :)

spring scattegories from calliope

calliope from creating motherhood has this game going. check it out:)

1. What is your favorite springy color? green

2. Something you put in water? goldfish

3. Something you eat asparagus with? garlic

4. Something you change into flip-flops for? getting my toes done :)

5. Something you imagine yourself singing in your imaginary convertible? girls just wanna have fun

6. Something that makes you sneeze? grass

7. Something that gets you outside? golden sunshine

8.. Something that crashes your picnic? gnats- i hate when they get in your eyes!

9. Something that stings you? giant thorns on the weeds

10. Something that wafts through the air at night? giggles (i know it isn't a smell... but we laugh a lot in this house)

help

hey readers, recently i've received two emails from people representing websites. they have asked to have a link to their page put on my blog. i replied to the first one because it seemed legitimate, but now i have a second one and i don't know what to think. fyi- in that reply to the first one, i just asked for more information.

have any of you gotten emails like this? should i just ignore them?

good video, good message

i came across this video randomly. take a moment to watch it. :)

4 months old

wow, already 4 months. it's surprising how quickly it's gone, but i'm loving it too. arden is so interesting :) we had her 4 month well-baby visit today. the doctor said she's advanced because she's started rolling both ways. eeee! it's kinda cool to hear that from a professional. now for the stats on our big girl:

weight: 15 lb 14.7 oz- 92%

height: 26.8 inches- 100% (holy crap)

head: 16.73- 87%

we knew she was a big girl but 100% in length. that's just crazy. no wonder we can put her in 6 month stuff.

they always put the development stuff on the print out. let's see how arden measures up in the 4-6 month stats:

may sit with support- check

holds head high when on tummy- check

rolls over both ways- check

reaches for and grasps objects- check

brings hand to mouth- check

coos, laughs, squeals, smiles- big check

we talked about food a little. he said that we can do rice cereal if we want. not needed really, but with how big she is, she might want a bit more to eat. he said we can also play with some veggies around 5 months. we'll see how it goes.

she does have one bitsy problem. she has a little bit of l.abial adhesion. nothing to worry about currently and fairly common. this is when lady bits start to grow together. this is also an easy thing to fix if it continues.

she freaked on the doctor too. he was just listening to her heart and she was giving him a wary look. he checked her ears and she started crying. she was really mad. doctor wasn't doing anything that hurt so we think it might be a little bit of stranger anxiety (whenever i hear this i think of the phrase stranger danger). unfortunately this break down was before her shots so that wasn't too pretty either. she had a melt-down. i couldn't soothe her with the boob like usual. she kept freaking. poor little girl.

also, doctor thought he might of seen something on her bottom gums. she might be getting a tooth. i had been wondering that because she is really putting more things in her mouth and gnawing on them. she is drooling everywhere. i've tried looking myself and feeling around but couldn't tell. i've noticed that she is soothed when i rub her lower gums. hmm... we'll see. i'm kind of not ready for teeth. i've heard the hellish stories. i feel like we're getting into a good routine with sleep and i don't want that messed up.

and i'm a bit afraid of jinxing the sleep so i'm afraid of talking about it :) ha. but i will anyways. we've been working on getting arden to sleep sans boobie. we've started getting her ready for bed at about 7. anna is doing most of the night time stuff since she doesn't get as much time with arden as i do. she'll change her, get her in pjs, read her a book while rocking her, swaddle her and put on her mobile and sleep sheep. we've had success in getting arden to fall asleep on her own like this without much fussing. it's pretty great to look into the nursery and she that she's passed out :) this system hasn't worked much for me in the daytime. i think it's because she knows she can get boob easily. but today she fell asleep twice without my help. i am treating it like a fluke, but cross your fingers for me. it would be awesome if i didn't need to spend an hour getting her to sleep. she still only sleeps for 30-45 minutes usually. i would love to have a baby that slept longer, but i can deal with it :)

that's all for now. i hope everyone has a great weekend.

flowers from our garden.

happy spring baby :)

you can do it, put your back into it!!

woot woot :) arden rolled from her back to her belly today! she's been working on it for a while. i had her doing some nudey tummy time (how she prefers it) and she had rolled from belly to back easy as pie. she started working on rolling the other way and wouldn't give up. it was tempting to just nudge her a little to help out, but i refrained. she did it all on her own and i got it on video!

here it is: